“If we seek for the best times to act, we may miss some opportunities. We must seize the moment and make it great.”
― Lailah Gifty Akita
This week's challenge: Seize the moment.
I get it. You're busy. And, with all that you have on your plate, it can sometimes be tough to plan ahead. The truth is we are all juggling a lot at once and it really is not surprising that we set goals and struggle to meet them. So does this mean that we should give up on setting goals and throw in the towel? NO! Then what does it mean, Coach? I'm glad you asked :).
It means that as Tony Robbins famously said, we must "remain committed to our decisions but flexible in our approach." I'm convinced that we often miss opportunities to act on a goal simply because we fail to notice them.
This week, I challenge you to have an "opportunities are everywhere" mindset. Instead of embracing an excuse (even if it's valid) and focusing on what you CAN'T do, I want you to ask yourself "what CAN I do?"
Do you really have NO time to work out today? Or could you get in 15 minutes at home vs. your usual 30 at the gym?
Is there truly NO time to eat healthier or could you make healthier choices even when you're stuck with the drive-thru?
Achieving your goal will often require FLEXIBILITY. If you require perfect conditions in order to be successful, life will eventually leave you feeling defeated.
Don't give up, get creative! Not only will making this mental shift allow you to reach your current goals, but you'll be positioned for long-term success. Always remember: successful people's lives are not easier or better, they are just better at handling the challenges that life presents.
Seize the moment!
Even if you've developed Superman-like powers in the eating and exercise department, you may be afraid that the holidays will be your kryptonite. Let's face it - with all the celebrations and festivities that occur between now and New Year’s Day - it can be tough to stay on track.
Temptations will be all around. Office celebrations. Your mom's famous sweet potato pie. Macaroni and cheese, potato salad, and candied yams. Eggnog. A severe case of the lazies and "I-don't-feel-like-it-itis." How will you fare?
The book of wisdom reminds us that succeeding in any task is a process:
“Prepare your work outside; get everything ready for yourself in the field, and after that build your house.”
~Proverbs 24:27 ESV
Your ability to weather the holiday storm will hinge on two simple acts: planning and preparation.
If you don’t plan or prepare for the most wonderful time of the year, chances are good that you'll start New Year in the hole. To make matters worse, studies show that many of us never lose that holiday padding and end up packing on an extra 10-20 pounds per decade. Yikes! I know you don't want that to be your story so over the coming weeks, I’ll be providing tips to keep you “on point”.
Here are the first three:
1. Don’t forget your H20! Drink 2-3 full glasses of water in the two hours prior to your office party, ministry fellowship, or night out. It's a simple way to curb your appetite.
2. Do enjoy a salad before your meal. Another trick to curb your appetite and leave less room for high-calorie foods. Oh, and beware of creamy dressings, they are laden with fat and sugar. Choose a fat-free vinaigrette or Italian and drizzle, don’t pour.
3. Don’t skip your workout. Consistency is especially important this time of year. If you’re short on time, don’t let yourself off the hook. Even a quick 15 min. workout can help you maintain your fitness level, so make the commitment to get one in!
Which of these tips will you put in place to set yourself up for success?
Until next time,
Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” ~Matthew 19:26 (NIV)
This week’s challenge: Believe it's possible!
Your situation may look bad. You may feel like giving up. Friends and family may be all out of words of consolation. But don’t you give up! Because it IS possible.
Your "it" can be anything...
A broken marriage
A troubled career
A business on the verge of bankruptcy
More month than money
A sullied reputation
Or anything else that you can think of…
It doesn't matter if someone else messed up or you did...
It may look bad, really bad, but God can turn it around. There is nothing too hard for God!
How do I know? The answer is very simple actually…
If He could overcome death and the grave, surely He can handle any problem we face. If you believe that He is the risen savior, then you can have confidence – God Confidence – that He can help you overcome ANYTHING.
Keep looking up,
In 3 John 1:2, John prays that his friend would be as healthy in body as he was in spirit. Investing time in our faith walk makes us spiritually strong & empowers us to great things - not just in the spiritual realm but in the physical as well.
When our minds are full of His promises, our approach to life is different. Things that we once saw as impossible (like eating healthier & exercising regularly) become doable. So if you're having trouble sticking to your regimen, it may be time to pick up your spiritual weights (prayer & bible study). Also, add your health & fitness goals to your prayer list.
Pray for strength not only to make a change but to stick to it. Remember, there is nothing too big or small for Him.
Until next time,
Having a healthy, supportive environment is a critical key to reaching your weight loss goals. Under the right circumstances and conditions, anyone can reach their goals. Yes, that includes you!
A Small Action That Will Make a BIG Difference In Your Environment
Making a lifestyle change can be difficult, make it easier on yourself by explaining to your family and friends what you plan to accomplish, why it is important to you, AND how it will benefit them.
For example, you may want to explain that losing 30 pounds by New Year's will bring your blood pressure/cholesterol/blood sugar levels in line and improve your overall health. Also, don’t be afraid to share how the excess weight is affecting your and their quality of life. It may be helpful to explain that at your current weight you haven’t been feeling well, have less energy, etc. Then share how losing it will allow you to spend more quality time with them doing the things they love. A similar approach can be used with your friends.
The people that truly love you will want you to look and feel your best! So have that crucial conversation this week so that you have the support that you need.
Until next time,
I just stopped by to remind you of something…
You Get Out What You Put In
Like anything else in life, when it comes to your exercise routine you get out what you put in. Just going through the motions is not good enough.
For real results, push your intensity in each workout. Remind yourself that it is only a small portion of your day, and that you can do it.
Dig down deep and give it all you have. It is the only way to get the results you seek.
Until next time,
P.S. For a quick routine to tone your upper body, click HERE.
No, I am not talking about the song of Snoop Dogg fame 😊. I am referring to the *IT* that is holding you back.
Allow me to introduce you to one of my virtual mentors, Les Brown. Check out what he has to say on the subject…
Drop it like it's hot...all the doubt, worry, frustration, stress and anxiety that has been robbing you of your health or causing you to lose sleep at night. Decide to live your life looking forward...not backward.
Examine yourself and be brutally honest with you. If you have habits, behaviors or choices that are taking you down the wrong path, or that don't represent the GREATNESS that is within you...face the truth. Make the hard decision to release these from your life. Don't allow these choices or habits to rob you of your greatest life or dictate your future.
Take back your power. Deepen your resolve to win. Intensify the pursuit of what you want. Practice calming your mind, going within and finding a place of peace within yourself. Live from this place. The mark of GREATNESS is upon you.
Thanks for the pep talk Les!
The ball is in your court now. What will you do with it?
Until next time,
P.S. If you could use some help winning the battle in your mind, click HERE.
I know sometimes it seems that calories are evil :) but they really do have an honorable purpose - to fuel our bodies.
Calories are units of energy. Just like you need gasoline in the tank of your car to go to work, church, etc., your body needs calories to fuel the activity of your brain, heart, lungs, and limbs. They are extremely important!
AND just as there are different qualities of gas, there are different qualities of calories. Your body is a classy, luxury, wonderfully made vehicle and it needs PREMIUM gas (baked, grilled, roasted lean proteins, healthy fat, fruit, veggies).
A steady diet of Regular unleaded - fried, sugar-laden, artery-clogging fats, and processed foods - will only make your car (body) sluggish and set your mind, body, and soul up for suboptimal performance.
Let's focus on fueling our bodies right for the rest of this week. I promise you will see AND feel the difference!
Until next time,
P.S. For a quick tip on how to lose weight week after week, click here.
How is your week going? Has it been a rough one?
Here's a thought: Control what you can control.
Try as you might, you CAN NOT control your boss, your spouse, your kids, or the weather. However, you CAN – with some effort - control your thoughts and actions.
Choose to focus on the positive.
Choose to take care of yourself so that you can be your best for yourself and others.
Choose to relieve stress in healthy ways.
Choose to show love and encouragement to others along the way.
One person can make a difference - choose to be that person, okay?
I believe in you,
P.S. Get daily reminders that help you make healthy choices here.
Do you find it hard to make smart food choices? If your answer is YES, you are not alone.
Researchers at Cornell University believe that you and I are faced with over 200 choices PER DAY about food. Yikes!
Some choices are made consciously, and others are made on autopilot. I can’t tell you how many times I have inhaled a bag of chips, found myself in the Chick-fil-a drive through, devoured an entire pack of Sweet 16 donuts in response to stress!
One of the skills I had to develop to keep the weight off was the skill of making smart swaps.
Smart swap: a healthier alternative that satisfies your craving without wrecking your goals.
Here are some examples of smart swaps that you can make to stay on point this week:
P.S. For a quick and easy weight loss tip, click here.
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