Don't believe the hype! I challenge you to dismiss the thought that you lack what it takes to be successful. You DO have what it takes!
The truth is that difference between successful and average is rarely a lack of talent, time, or resources but a lack of courage and commitment to act.
Point blank: Successful people are better at making themselves do what they don't want to do...and that's why they succeed.
Free yourself from the excuses; they are keeping you bound.
Let's go get it!
"I don't have time to (insert thing you know you need to do but aren't)..."
Hmm. We don't like to admit it, but how we spend our time is a CHOICE. We can't do everything, but we find ways to do the things that are truly important to us. It's a matter of priorities.
“I had my time.” ATM machines these days…they only give you $20s and I needed a $10! I decided to pop into the CVS next door to break the $20. Anxious to get in and out, I began scanning the racks for my one of my favorite freedom treats – York Peppermint patties. 2 for $1 great! I quickly proceeded to the register. I am instantly greeted by a gentleman who appeared to be in his early 50s who evidently had been checking out my t-shirt.
“Party in the Park? Sounds like fun, where was that?” I replied “It was a lot of fun! It was in Detroit.” I went on to tell him that Party in the Park was an annual event sponsored by Think Beyond the Chair, an organization that provides social activities, events and support for wheelchair users. “I was the guest fitness trainer and it was truly a blast! We had a DJ and everything and we got in a good sweat!” His face just lit up. “Man, I LOVE Detroit! I remember back in the day when I was DJing, Detroit was the place to be. Those people know how to party!" he said. I laughed and said “they still do!”
Mr. DJ went on to tell me about how he used to be an on-air radio personality as well. I could tell how much he loved it. I couldn’t help myself…I was intrigued and decided I had a few minutes. “So, you used to DJ? You don’t anymore? What made you stop?” I crammed to understand why this former on-air celebrity would be content to work the cash register at CVS. He replied, “I had my time. I loved using albums and reel-to-reel and the industry was moving towards CDs. It wasn’t that I couldn’t have adjusted. I just wasn’t willing to, you know? I had my time and I’m at peace with it.” We chatted for a few more minutes and then I left the store.
As I drove on to my destination, his words kept ringing in my head “I had my time.” It’s been over a week since I was in that CVS and I find myself flashing back to that moment often.
We all have “our time.” When it comes, we don’t know how long it will last. All we know that we have is now and in that moment we have a choice to make. What will we do with that time – waste it or take full advantage? Will I give all I’ve got and hold nothing back? Will I take the risks, put it all on the line, and dare to be different? Or will I cower in the corner making “I’m not good/smart/talented enough” excuses? Will I spend my time fretting over the connects and resources I don’t have? Or will I trust that where He guides, He provides? Will I live life on purpose or just let that time pass me by?
I don’t believe in accidents. This was a divine reminder to me: “This is your time. Don’t waste it!” I’ve decided that I won’t. I want to have the same peace that man behind the cash register had. I want to know in my heart that my time was well spent. I want to hear “well done.”
How about you?
Routine is good, rigid is not.
I woke up yesterday with this great plan of how I would get everything done prior to my departure for Jacksonville. It was going well too and then came the monkey wrench. It became clear that my plan to return home and change into my typical travel attire - jeans, a T-shirt and tennis shoes wasn't going to happen. At least not if I wanted to get to the airport on time. Still my mind dashed to come up with alternate scenarios on how I could possibly get back home. The idea of traveling in a dress was a no go, I wanted to be comfortable! Anyway, none of my scenarios were feasible and finally I had to let it go. Well, it turns out I WAS just as comfortable in the dress and received compliments on it throughout the day -- what girl doesn't love that?!!
This morning the lesson was repeated. There is this beautiful lake outside of my hotel and I could see that there was path that looked perfect for running. I had gone to bed last night with the plan of running around the lake then hitting the gym for weights. I woke up ready to go and then realized - no arm strap. I didn't pack it thinking I would be working out indoors. Could I still run? Sure, I just wouldn't have my Nike app to know how far or how fast I ran and I wouldn't have Pandora for music. No big right? Well, still it bothered me, it was outside of my routine. Then I heard it "I am doing a new thing. I'm teaching you to let to go." I realized that I was being RIGID and could miss out on a beautiful morning run just because I didn't have what I thought I needed. Powerful lesson.
I challenge you to look at your own life. Are you so stuck in routine and what you are used to having and used to doing that you've become rigid? Routines are very important...I don't know anyone that is successful that is not a person of routine. But it's also important that we remain flexible and open. Don't let your desire for comfort cause you to miss out on a good thing!
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40-something who loves food, fitness, and fun!